Dating versus courting
Christopher Philip This article is presented as an add-on to the my free book BLP: The Only Book On Body Language That Everybody Needs To Read: Chapter 13 – Courtship Signals.Please note that all links in this article are done by me personally and will open in a new tab and you should explore these links to gain a more thorough understanding of courtship.Courtship is a measure of a man’s strength and weaknesses – its very nature is to weed the good from the bad, the valued from the value-less.The Rule Of Four The rule of four states that in order to be sure that a woman is unequivocally displaying non-verbal sexual interest, four separate positive signals must be present simultaneously, and they must be directed at a specific person.The bravest of men blessed with confidence, charisma and charm will succeed in approach and solicitation.
Keep an eye out for what scientists call de-courting skills, where the overall attentiveness of a person falls over time.The rapport between two people can change over the course of just a few minutes.When it finally comes time to speak, it is essential to once again ramp up our mindfulness of what is going on non-verbally since things might change dramatically.I doubt that anyone would show attraction to anyone else if their full set of flaws were showing all at once and initially upon meeting.
Therefore, no signals of seduction by a woman will ever be foolproof and accurate as a representation of her complete impression of someone, since the impression itself is incomplete.
Priority should always be given to subconscious body language over conscious words.